11/1/2022 0 Comments Thirdstory still in love lyrics![]() ![]() ![]() In his book The Marriage Clinic, highly revered marriage researcher John Gottman writes: “Many clinicians have been quick to point out that ‘affairs involve sex, but sex is usually not the purpose of the affair.’ Most clinicians who have written in this area report that affairs are usually about seeking friendship, support, understanding, and validation they are about getting the acceptance that is missing in the marriage.” However, underlying vulnerabilities very likely made the new relationship possible. ![]() Others blame it on their spouse’s actions or lack of actions. Some feel that God sent them their soul mate. Others have more difficulty their minds are confused because what they are doing is contrary to what they believe and value. Some are honest enough with themselves that they know step-by-step how everything came to be as it is now. It may be challenging to know exactly how you got into this situation. But perhaps you’ve gone further, and the relationship has turned physical. You’re already in what some refer to as an emotional affair. However, things got rather intense once you fell in love with someone other than your spouse. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. You probably never meant for it to happen. ![]()
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